This is a followup article regarding the subject of fear. I want to show you how it negatively affects achieving life goals and, in particular, the goal of developing a home business. In a previous article I suggested going through the process of discovering specific fears so that we can do something about them. In this article I am going to give you an overview of three major steps or areas that we're going to work with to finally conquer fear in your life if it is an issue for you. In future videos and articles I'm going to go through some of the areas I'm going to mention today in a little bit more detail.
Basically the three areas are: #1. We have to learn how to deal with our existing fear, dealing with it in a way that we might say "healing the fear." The second major area is to learn how to not feed the fear that we have. And then the third major area is providing information that helps you to overcome fear by virtue of discovering the truth about the situation.
So in the first area, dealing with existing fear, basically the first step of that is what I've already mentioned, which is discovering what the fear is and admitting it's there. And the second part of dealing with existing fear is discovering methods of decreasing the energy of the fear once you know it's there. I'm going to teach you in the future some ways to "deflate the energy" of fear that you may be feeling right now or have tucked away somewhere in a safe place.
In the second area of not feeding the fear, I'm going to teach you some ways that you can learn to focus your attention on other life events that are healthy, can actually help you pursue your goals more effectively, and make you into a more complete person.
In third area, the "providing information strategy," one of just a couple different areas I am going to focus on is to use as an example that one of the most disabling fears that a lot of people have is the fear of dying. For example, if somebody has died and come back from death, like these after-death experiences that people have written about, those folks don't have a fear of death anymore. The reason they don't is because they have information. Their information is such that they no longer have fear of death because they've seen the other side. They've seen what they were afraid of. Now, as this issue pertains to developing a home business, most people are paralyzed by a fear regarding the home business because they're just afraid they're going to fail. Also, they're afraid of rejection. They don't know what's "on the other side"--- they are just guessing.
So as an example, let's say that if I could show you exactly how you could find all of the people you needed to be able to create a very successful home business without any rejection at all as part of the process, to find every organization or team you needed, and I could show you how to do that, and I could also show you how to have every tool you absolutely needed to have a successful business or program. And let's say that you knew in your heart that both of these things were true. I would bet that any fears that you have about starting a business would go away because you now had information. So the lack of knowledge is a major cause of disabling fear. So in future videos I am going to go into a lot of detail about how exactly to accomplish these two goals of being able to find all the people that you need for your organization to become a successful business without any rejection that you have to go through, and how to get all the tools you need to have a successful business. My expectation is that when you have this information you won't be afraid to do a business. You will be able to step out of your comfort zone.
So, when I'm talking about these things, I'm not talking about getting rid of all your fear; that's not possible. However courage is possible and there are very courageous people who have moved forward in spite of fear. You can be that person.
Courage then is the last topic of this article. Courage is moving forward in spite of fear. What we want to do is decrease the fear as much as possible so that it's not in the way unnecessarily, but in the end there is often going to be some fear. Some people have said that courage is fear that has said its prayers. I like that as a way of focusing on the ultimate solution for dealing with this fear. But in the end, you have to take courage and take action, so we're going to as a final strategy focus (in the future) on how to take small steps-to take courageous but small steps to overcome any remaining fears after we've already gone over the other steps that I've already explained. So I hope you have found some benefit in looking at fear in this way, and it's a hope that you're going to be able to overcome it using the information I am going to be giving you in future videos and blog formats. So I wish you well, God bless, and have a great day.
Stanley Lang
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